STOP LISTENING TO YOUTUBERS  FOR ADVICE



      You need to stop listening to other YouTubers for advice, especially the fresh ones because at the end of the day, you have to be a man. You have to carve your own path.  Every Blog that I've talked about was not only working on myself but also helping you along the way. I'm here to help you along the way, not for you to grab and hold on to me and idolize me as a man. You, as a man, should never idolize another man, but instead, continually work on yourself. Yes, you can find help from other people, but make sure that the people that you're finding help from, you have to judge them first. You got to put them through the fire. Don't just quickly start idolizing them, for example.

JUDGE THEM BY THEIR FRUITS

                 There's this great problem, it's in the Bible and it talks something along the lines that when it comes to a teacher, you should judge that teacher by their fruits. In other words, what have they been able to produce?  How? You gonna listen to a guy telling you advice on how to get a girl but his girl is a three or the girl he has nobody really wants, right?

How are you gonna listen up to a guy on how to keep a girl but he's never kept a relationship for more than a month because he only beds whores?

 How are you going to take money advice from a dude that's never even made a million bucks or hasn't even been in the game long enough to know that it wasn't just luck of the draw?

 How are you going to take fitness advice from a guy that has a dad bought?

The point is, you look at the fruits of what they've been able to produce and more importantly, look at their entire life, right? Are they stable? Are they mentally strong in every realm? Do they have a good body? Have they made millions of dollars in their life so that you could start taking money advice from them? And more importantly, if they've made that money, have they made that money telling you how to make money? Or have they made that money by actually building a business? That's important as well, right? You have to understand what fruits have they produced before you start taking that advice before you start eating out of that tree and you start. Lighting that man.

Look at the track record

One thing I love about myself is that you can read my every blog and see the development yourself from the awkwardness. Go Read my first Blog now. Read this blog. You'll see that development in Charisma? I had to build that up. I had to learn that. You'll see the poverty. You'll see where I started in my room without any money. And then you'll see getting my first office, which is really just a freaking garage that we painted with my parents so it looked like a decent office to now to a 30,000 square foot office. Like you'll see every single development. There is no sugar coating. There is no secret sauce. It was eleven years of grind. I started when I was 17. I'm 28 right now. It doesn't stop. You can see it all from being that skinny dude with a big head to a dude now. I'm £205 now, bro. I put on muscle. I know what it takes. I am a testament to my own advice. I was my own guinea pig. So before you start looking at advice from other men and thinking Man, should I idolize that man? Look at their Track record? What have they built? Was it a shortcut? Have they been here long enough? Are they just finessing you? Or can you actually see that development? Can you see the growth in every aspect? Before you start taking advice for that aspect, take fitness. Fitness is a great one because shortcuts happen all the time, right? You see a new fitness influencer come out of nowhere, but he's juiced up on steroids. Look at the liver. King is a great example of this dude. Popped one year out of nowhere, and had everyone eating bulls, testicles like an idiot, and raw liver. All to find out the man took a shortcut. You need to find men that have paved their own path, that has figured it out. And if those are the ones you have to listen to, you judge their fruits, you look at their track record. Is this a guy you want to take advice from? Is this a guy that will actually lead you down the right path? And this is important because now and this is what you have to understand when you have full discernment, when you're a wise dude, you start understanding how to parcel through the crap, right? You have to understand that. Somebody, you have to give them the truth, and most of it will be the truth. In other words, for you to fall victim to, like, a liver king or anybody, especially any new guy that's spewing a bunch of BS. For you to fall victim to these guys, they got to give you a lot of truth. And when you start hearing all this truth, you think, man, that makes sense. That makes sense. That makes sense. And then they'll slip into a lie. Then they'll slip a little twist of the truth in there. You have to understand that that's how they're deceiving most of you. It sounds good. It sounds almost too good to be true. And that's why, for example, take finance guys. I have beef with some finance guys where they like to talk about nine to five, right? Nine to five is bad to do you understand that since the dawn of man, there have been jobs, there have been employers, there have been bosses, there have been kings, and there have been people that do the job underneath. Like it's the reality of the world we live in. The worst part is that they try to make nine to five-look like they're a bad thing. Look, I had nine to five s. If I didn't have. Nine to five, I wouldn't have had the cash to fund my own business nine to five, even if that's not what you want to do. First of all, it is unrealistic for everyone to be their own boss. Can't happen statistically impossible. More importantly, nine to five s provide security. They it's a steady paycheck. More importantly, it's a respectable career. And if you did want to propel into a business, you have to understand, you have to work your ass off. It could be a great learning progress for you. It could help you fund your own personal business.

The problem is that all these guys telling you that nine to five s are bad. All they're doing is trying to sell you a course for how to make money, to make their money, because they can't build a business that makes actual money. And the businesses that they do build aren't profitable enough because you're pumping ads. So I'm telling you, bro, I'm a businessman. I own six businesses. Now, I know how these businesses work. Yes, they'll tell you, oh, I made a million dollars, but they spent $600,000 on ads just to be able to pull out the million. So really, they only took home, like, 300K. So what happens? They make a course. Of course they. A million dollars. They spent no ad money on it because they were able to perpetuate this deceit, right? So now they're taking 90, 95% profit home. Why do you think that after a few months of running a course, they'll close down their business? Because the course now makes them more money.

Again, judge by the fruits, right? Remember what I was telling you? Judge the track record. Understand? If it's deceit when you put an influencer or a guy that you’re idolizing through the fire, you idolize the guy. And you know what's crazy about all these men? I talk about self-development all the time. I talk about how you should be your own man all the time. I'm telling you to put me through the fire. I'm telling you to put everybody else through the fire. What's crazy about these guys is that they won't tell you to put themselves through the fire. Most of these men don't even idolize other men. These men are finding guinea pigs to be able to manipulate. So you don't see the truth. The truth is you, as a man, should be wise enough. I don't care if you're 15 or you're 35. You should be wise. Enough to put any guy that you want to take advice from through the fire, and that way you can make an executive decision in your life. Is this the guy that you want to take advice from? And will this guy actually help you? Or is he just keeping you in another hamster wheel that’s just here to keep you busy? At the end of the day, what your main focus should be is to work on yourself so much that you won't need that advice anymore, that you've grown up, and that you've graduated from at advice. So you're your own man. You can then advise your own children, the men around you, and your own friends. You become that beacon of what a man should actually be. That should be your goal…